When I search in yahoo I stumbled this marriage proposal that really amazing and so romantic. The lady is Nikki Davis a model of Torrid. Her boyfriend surprised her with the biggest proposal and marriage bond in that scene. Wow while I am watching this video my tears fall from my eyes. i am just happy with the result..You can watch it and enjoy...
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Philippine Mass Wedding During Valentines Day
Its already Valentines day here in America and many are celebrating it. Well, in the Philippines there are 2k couple married during the hearts day. Its a mass wedding that usually happened a few times in the country. My brother got married in a mass wedding before and it was fun. I wish all the couples a happy marriage and hope everything will be fined as you grow old together. Have a wonderful Valentines Day to All.....
A Wedding Of My Cousin
Marriage is a commitment for a lifetime even some people got divorce but no excuse for that. There are many reasons why people will get divorce in a heart beat. Some couple will go separate ways because one of them commit adultery and maybe one of them did not love him anymore. I am not sure about what really is the cause of divorce but if you commit to a person do you think it will be forever? The couple below got married now for 4-5 years and still sweet...
Couple's Corner - Hearts Everywhere
It has been a long time since i joined this CC. I miss it and i even neglected this blog of mine. I am happy that there are still many readers of this blog. But i decided to join again today for Couple's Corner. Well, our topic is about Hearts Everywhere.
When i first met my husband i cannot understand the feeling i have. But i knew what he felt since it was so obvious. We met in Manila and i am excited seems like i do not want that meeting end. Everyday he called and we talked for a long time. Everyday i wait for his call and hoping he will call more. Love is everywhere and it's getting more each day. We are married almost 6 yrs now and the love is always growing each day. We have two kids whom we love dearly.
Tejan's Love Story
Tejan give permissions to let me repost her love story that you will be inspired to red. Thanks Tejan...Here is her story....
The first meeting when our guy is a foriegner could always be exciting with butterflies on stomach:) Thats because, most of us first known each other by writing or phones and internets then after all the coocoos, meeting personally will be a realization of our dream or a nightmare..aheheh! Because many if not mostly has no luck at all. Some, just good at the net or phone but in reality..uh,uh! So, by this, we will always feel double on the first meeting.
Our story maybe not that exciting and interesting but still I have to write it here:) Anyway, believe it or not, I already love him before I met him! wink* (kanta man na net) heeh. Originally, I was not interested of marrying a foriegner but then when its destiny maybe you cannot fight for it or can we??? Anyway I thank God for giving me 'Him' I felt so lucky!
Okay, here where and what happened on our first meeting;
Since we've been writing and talking each other through the net for a couple of months already, like 10mos. to be specific and besides from that, we didn't knew each other through the net alone. But we were introduced by a common friend or family. My aunt who were married to a Norsk (but works here in Sweden (VOLVO) who happened to be the boss of my husband that time introduced me to him..heheh because he asked! They invited him to thier house to met my aunt and showed him some pictures and videos of me. Hmmm, inside him he thought, "this is the girl for me" (na lovestruck sad sya) heheh take note the girl for I was so tiny:) Thus, our love story begun. What I mean here is that, I was not w
orried about what kind of person he was because my aunts already knew him and the fact that he was introduced by my uncle who knews him also because they work together and as I knew, he(my aunts husband) will never introduce whoever. And I think this is a good thing.
When my aunt's family planned to visit Philippines, my husband tried to work so hard and even worked overtime so he can save enough money to go with them and meet me. Waaaah, I first met him at the airport of course!(Manila, NAIA) He was more taller and bigger than I thought, other than that, all my expectations about him were right! Honestly??? we hug and kiss right away at the airport when I met him. It felt like we already knew each other for a long time! Everything flows just right! And after 10 days we got married:)
The first meeting when our guy is a foriegner could always be exciting with butterflies on stomach:) Thats because, most of us first known each other by writing or phones and internets then after all the coocoos, meeting personally will be a realization of our dream or a nightmare..aheheh! Because many if not mostly has no luck at all. Some, just good at the net or phone but in reality..uh,uh! So, by this, we will always feel double on the first meeting.Our story maybe not that exciting and interesting but still I have to write it here:) Anyway, believe it or not, I already love him before I met him! wink* (kanta man na net) heeh. Originally, I was not interested of marrying a foriegner but then when its destiny maybe you cannot fight for it or can we??? Anyway I thank God for giving me 'Him' I felt so lucky!
Okay, here where and what happened on our first meeting;
Since we've been writing and talking each other through the net for a couple of months already, like 10mos. to be specific and besides from that, we didn't knew each other through the net alone. But we were introduced by a common friend or family. My aunt who were married to a Norsk (but works here in Sweden (VOLVO) who happened to be the boss of my husband that time introduced me to him..heheh because he asked! They invited him to thier house to met my aunt and showed him some pictures and videos of me. Hmmm, inside him he thought, "this is the girl for me" (na lovestruck sad sya) heheh take note the girl for I was so tiny:) Thus, our love story begun. What I mean here is that, I was not w
orried about what kind of person he was because my aunts already knew him and the fact that he was introduced by my uncle who knews him also because they work together and as I knew, he(my aunts husband) will never introduce whoever. And I think this is a good thing.When my aunt's family planned to visit Philippines, my husband tried to work so hard and even worked overtime so he can save enough money to go with them and meet me. Waaaah, I first met him at the airport of course!(Manila, NAIA) He was more taller and bigger than I thought, other than that, all my expectations about him were right! Honestly??? we hug and kiss right away at the airport when I met him. It felt like we already knew each other for a long time! Everything flows just right! And after 10 days we got married:)
Couple's Corner - Marriage Proposal
Hi there this is my first time to join and i love this me. I almost put all the love stories that I collected. But before that I am going to join and tell the world of my better-half...Anyways the topic for this week is marriage proposal.
I did not know where to start since this is the fourth time already of CC. But anyway I will tell you my marriage proposal.
First of all I want to say I met my hubby through Singlec.com it is a christian single website in which you can met mostly Christian guys. We communicated for more than two years and he decided to visit me in the Philippines. He came first in Manila and called me that he already arrived that he wants to meet me there. I am very nervous and excited specially I am still in the middle of busy life being a working student in the college and was appointed as a Dean of the excess dormitory in the college. I went to my big boss and told them everything you know what they are very nice enough to give me an early break just to meet my dear hubby but BF that time. Now the students in our dormitory knows about it and start to teased me then advice what to do hehe since it was my first time meeting someone and ride an airplane for the first time too hahahhaha....Anyway, I went to Manila and he met me in the airport and surprised because he told me he will shave his beard but not he look and old caveman but cute.(wink) I am scared and at the same time excited to meet him. After that meeting we went to the hotel that he already reserved for us. Imagine he got two rooms for each of us mine was in the 5th floor and he was in the 4rth floor. He said that was the right way since we are not married yet and he do not want the talk of everybody. Well, i do not like also being together in one room since I want to be pure before marriage(lol). We stayed in Manila for 17 days but before we end our stay there one night while we are walking to Robinson mall next to Las Palmas hotel where we stay, he told me that we will bought something. We went to a jewelry store in the mall and after picking up what he wants to give then he said will you marry me? I was shocked and shy because people are looking at us and the lady in the store smile but I did say yes and he put the ring in my finger. The ring was pure gold that until now it did not change the color even I wear it while I am washing the dishes and taking a bath. Anyway, after that we went to celebrate and ate at our favorite restaurant i hope it still there when we visit in the Philippines one day. After the 17 days of staying in Manila we went to my mom and dad's place and visit there for 3 days. Everybody was happy and surprised but I will tell you next what happened.....
Cecile's Love Story
I am thanks of the people whom I ask their love stories. They gives me permission to post their love stories here in my blog. If you want to read more just subscribe my feed. Anyway thank you Cecile for letting me copy your love story from your post. Hope you love to read others story also.
When Matt decided to see me in person for the first time in Malaysia, I knew then that he loves me. Yes, he was that serious! He was willing to travel a long way just to see me. And as for me, I already fell in love with him the moment I heard his voice on the phone. It was a kind, soft, and sweet voice. Even now, every time he calls, I still feel the same feeling. Of course we both prayed whether our decision to marry each other is the right thing to do. It was answered through the conversation I had with the other guy on Sweden. We were both happy since we received the blessing to marry each other from both parents especially for my parents who were not present during that special day of ours. Anyway, immediately after he arrived from his trip to Malaysian, he started processing everything we needed so I can go the United States to marry him. So after six months of waiting for my K-1 visa, I finally get to travel to meet his family and friends. It's been eight years now, but we are still in love despite of our differences, background, race and cultures. Putting aside differences and looking for what is good in each other makes our relationship stronger and even closer with each other. I am not perfect and neither does my husband, but with open mind and heart and support, we make our marriage works. We know that when we put God's first in everything we do such as marriage, whatever happens our marriage is going to be as strong as a rock!
When Matt decided to see me in person for the first time in Malaysia, I knew then that he loves me. Yes, he was that serious! He was willing to travel a long way just to see me. And as for me, I already fell in love with him the moment I heard his voice on the phone. It was a kind, soft, and sweet voice. Even now, every time he calls, I still feel the same feeling. Of course we both prayed whether our decision to marry each other is the right thing to do. It was answered through the conversation I had with the other guy on Sweden. We were both happy since we received the blessing to marry each other from both parents especially for my parents who were not present during that special day of ours. Anyway, immediately after he arrived from his trip to Malaysian, he started processing everything we needed so I can go the United States to marry him. So after six months of waiting for my K-1 visa, I finally get to travel to meet his family and friends. It's been eight years now, but we are still in love despite of our differences, background, race and cultures. Putting aside differences and looking for what is good in each other makes our relationship stronger and even closer with each other. I am not perfect and neither does my husband, but with open mind and heart and support, we make our marriage works. We know that when we put God's first in everything we do such as marriage, whatever happens our marriage is going to be as strong as a rock!
Sheng's Love Story
Thank you Sheng for allowing me posting your love story in here. I know many readers fall in love with the story that they read. I hope you have a great day...
Despite the distance, i was studying in Bicol and he was working in Bulacan, he managed to court me through letters, calls and text messages and it took him one year to let me finally say that we’re on. Like most of the couple who had a romantic declaration of their love to each other, for us we had it different again.
YES, WE DECLARED OUR LOVE
April 24, 2008
January 1, 2002, officially we become lovers. His siblings and cousins decided to have an excursion at Maribina Falls. He requested me to come with them together with my other siblings.
When we reached the place he asked me to go up on top of the falls. We sat there for a while. Both of us are serious as if each of us wanted to say something. Then after a long second of not saying anything...he said "Napapagod na ako sa ganitong sitwasyon, ikaw nde ka pa ba napapagod?" No reply... Then another question…"kelan ko ba malalaman?" Then i replied "Gusto mo ngaun na!" Our story started that way! Others may expect of "Do you love me?" question and "yes or no" answer. But it was not what had happened. After saying "gusto mo ngaun na?" i motioned of going down then he followed me.
That's it! We went home that day without saying any other words. It was a sad moment for me. I was hoping for a good reply and even a happy and sweet smile the moment i said "gusto mo ngaun na" but i didn't saw it on him. I even told him about it.
Then that night he spent it to our house till early morning. Gave me a present (perfume) which is till now was kept in our house and was not used. I want to display it on our future home as the first gift i received from him.
At first, i thought he wasn't serious and all the things that are happening those times are just the continuation of our neighbors childhood loveteam joke. But then with all the letters, calls and text messages i concluded that Oh My! he's really inlove with me. I have never spent time chatting with past suitors with nonsense things but with him i love it esp. when we're sharing about our life as a naughty kids. Six months after...i found myself dreaming of him and thinking of him before sleeping and even at the moment i open my eyes in the morning. He used to go home once a year but within that year he came home almost 5 times that made his relatives surprised.....that was because of me.:)
With his determination to win my heart he made it sure that every vacation he would come to our house to talk to me or if i was in Manila he will surelly meet me for a dinner.
Despite the distance, i was studying in Bicol and he was working in Bulacan, he managed to court me through letters, calls and text messages and it took him one year to let me finally say that we’re on. Like most of the couple who had a romantic declaration of their love to each other, for us we had it different again.
YES, WE DECLARED OUR LOVE
April 24, 2008
January 1, 2002, officially we become lovers. His siblings and cousins decided to have an excursion at Maribina Falls. He requested me to come with them together with my other siblings.
When we reached the place he asked me to go up on top of the falls. We sat there for a while. Both of us are serious as if each of us wanted to say something. Then after a long second of not saying anything...he said "Napapagod na ako sa ganitong sitwasyon, ikaw nde ka pa ba napapagod?" No reply... Then another question…"kelan ko ba malalaman?" Then i replied "Gusto mo ngaun na!" Our story started that way! Others may expect of "Do you love me?" question and "yes or no" answer. But it was not what had happened. After saying "gusto mo ngaun na?" i motioned of going down then he followed me.
That's it! We went home that day without saying any other words. It was a sad moment for me. I was hoping for a good reply and even a happy and sweet smile the moment i said "gusto mo ngaun na" but i didn't saw it on him. I even told him about it.
Then that night he spent it to our house till early morning. Gave me a present (perfume) which is till now was kept in our house and was not used. I want to display it on our future home as the first gift i received from him.
At first, i thought he wasn't serious and all the things that are happening those times are just the continuation of our neighbors childhood loveteam joke. But then with all the letters, calls and text messages i concluded that Oh My! he's really inlove with me. I have never spent time chatting with past suitors with nonsense things but with him i love it esp. when we're sharing about our life as a naughty kids. Six months after...i found myself dreaming of him and thinking of him before sleeping and even at the moment i open my eyes in the morning. He used to go home once a year but within that year he came home almost 5 times that made his relatives surprised.....that was because of me.:)
With his determination to win my heart he made it sure that every vacation he would come to our house to talk to me or if i was in Manila he will surelly meet me for a dinner.
Joy's Love Story
It is nice of Joy that she gives me a permission to post her love story in this blog. I hope you will inspired and feel the love as you read her story. Thank you mommy Joy...
In year 2004, my ex-boyfriend saw my profile in one of the dating website, from there, he already fell at first sight with my photo as well as the section where I was looking for marriage and lifetime companion because that’s what he was looking for too. So, by then, he tried to email me twice, but I never received anything from him until he decided to send me a snail mail. From the moment we saw each other’s photos, we already knew that we like each other. Until we get into deeper relationship where we found out more about each other where our liking towards each other develops into love. I was kind a skeptical too since we never met in person yet and then we already saying, “I Love You’s” after we talked over the phone or when we wrote emails to each other which is sometimes made me to think about reasons of what if’s.
So, when we had a chance to finally meet each other in person that’s where I confirmed of how we really love each other and yes, WE’RE IN LOVE, and we show it to the world that we indeed in love by getting married and settle down after 5 months of getting to know each other. We are sort of in a rush at that time which seem like he make sure that I won't change my mind.
One more thing, every day, he always say he loves me, he even whispered the three words in my ear when he goes to work, early in the morning where sometimes, I pretend I was asleep. It is so sweet of him doing that every day. He only missed a few, if we had a misunderstanding and when I was fully awake and not asleep. He whispered once in my sleep that woke me up though and at that time we had an argument. It was touching that’s why if he made something that disappoints me, I always forgive him in the end.
What more could I say, I am in love and will always be…
In year 2004, my ex-boyfriend saw my profile in one of the dating website, from there, he already fell at first sight with my photo as well as the section where I was looking for marriage and lifetime companion because that’s what he was looking for too. So, by then, he tried to email me twice, but I never received anything from him until he decided to send me a snail mail. From the moment we saw each other’s photos, we already knew that we like each other. Until we get into deeper relationship where we found out more about each other where our liking towards each other develops into love. I was kind a skeptical too since we never met in person yet and then we already saying, “I Love You’s” after we talked over the phone or when we wrote emails to each other which is sometimes made me to think about reasons of what if’s.
So, when we had a chance to finally meet each other in person that’s where I confirmed of how we really love each other and yes, WE’RE IN LOVE, and we show it to the world that we indeed in love by getting married and settle down after 5 months of getting to know each other. We are sort of in a rush at that time which seem like he make sure that I won't change my mind.
One more thing, every day, he always say he loves me, he even whispered the three words in my ear when he goes to work, early in the morning where sometimes, I pretend I was asleep. It is so sweet of him doing that every day. He only missed a few, if we had a misunderstanding and when I was fully awake and not asleep. He whispered once in my sleep that woke me up though and at that time we had an argument. It was touching that’s why if he made something that disappoints me, I always forgive him in the end.
What more could I say, I am in love and will always be…
Seiko's Love Story
Thank you very much Seiko for giving me permission to post your love story in here. I hope you also enjoy reading others love stories. Dear readers enjoy also reading...
Fallin' in love means something diff'rent to everyone but it's pretty overwhelming experience & when I met the man of my dreams ,I know I have no second thoughts of doubt.
Our story started meeting at a club where I worked as an entertainer in Japan.Our second met was by chance or accidentally when our path had crossed again since I din't seen him for a month or two.
Eventually I am the kind of person who don't believe in holding feelings inside.Our met just din't ended up yet continued & lasts for a span of 4 months when he told me that he's falling into me.'though m enjoying his company I told him that I wanted to be honest on what I feel because I just met him during my turbulant day.What if I felt for him was just an infatuation or I just needed him to fullfill the emptyness I had had?We know that being apart from our family back home was not that easy.So after six month of working here I told him that if I found myself missing him when I gone back to P.I that means I'm in love w/ him too & will give him a ring via Philippines when if I found myself missing him.And w/ that we separate our ways at the airport & that was October 1988.
But the moment I was in the aire flew back home to P.I.I already felt the emptyness w/o his pressence & even when I am in the arms of my family & friends,It's always him I am wanting for.
In every day that I am with him, my heart and soul learned to long for him and him alone. It is always Yasuyuki my stubborn heart is crying for. So I gave him a ring & told him that I was nearly demented on missing him a lot & w/ that he told me he would follow me & visit me in P.I
T'was December in 1988 after my operation on the throat when he came by to visit me & told him that I maybe falling into him too.And w/ that he throw himself off a cliff and I jumped after him then we're together.And since then,he always showed that he loves me,we exchange letter & he called me everyday & everynight via long distance call.The feelings we had had grew more & more.Without him, I don’t know what I’d do. I can’t imagine what my future would be devoid of his love.
So many people are against our relationship due to our age gap but the hell I care. In love, as they say, age doesn’t matter. They’re just numbers. Age shouldn’t be a hindrance for two lovers to fulfill their dream of fairytale-like romance. And that fairytale-like romance is in my hands, it will be stupid of me to blow off the chance. I worried-not of infatuations and puppy loves because I completely discern what I feel for Yasuyuki and that feeling I know for sure is true love as well as he to me.
All the waters in the world may dry up, and the sun may lose it’s glow but our love will forever live. No one can ever take us apart and that’s a promise I intend to keep until my last breath.Be the moon and the stars and the eclipse, the waters in the oceans, the trees and the birds, be the witness of our undying love for each other.I love him and I will forever spend the rest of my life loving Yasuyuki…
Taken 21 years ago (Sept.1988)
Fallin' in love means something diff'rent to everyone but it's pretty overwhelming experience & when I met the man of my dreams ,I know I have no second thoughts of doubt.
Our story started meeting at a club where I worked as an entertainer in Japan.Our second met was by chance or accidentally when our path had crossed again since I din't seen him for a month or two.
Eventually I am the kind of person who don't believe in holding feelings inside.Our met just din't ended up yet continued & lasts for a span of 4 months when he told me that he's falling into me.'though m enjoying his company I told him that I wanted to be honest on what I feel because I just met him during my turbulant day.What if I felt for him was just an infatuation or I just needed him to fullfill the emptyness I had had?We know that being apart from our family back home was not that easy.So after six month of working here I told him that if I found myself missing him when I gone back to P.I that means I'm in love w/ him too & will give him a ring via Philippines when if I found myself missing him.And w/ that we separate our ways at the airport & that was October 1988.
But the moment I was in the aire flew back home to P.I.I already felt the emptyness w/o his pressence & even when I am in the arms of my family & friends,It's always him I am wanting for.
In every day that I am with him, my heart and soul learned to long for him and him alone. It is always Yasuyuki my stubborn heart is crying for. So I gave him a ring & told him that I was nearly demented on missing him a lot & w/ that he told me he would follow me & visit me in P.I
T'was December in 1988 after my operation on the throat when he came by to visit me & told him that I maybe falling into him too.And w/ that he throw himself off a cliff and I jumped after him then we're together.And since then,he always showed that he loves me,we exchange letter & he called me everyday & everynight via long distance call.The feelings we had had grew more & more.Without him, I don’t know what I’d do. I can’t imagine what my future would be devoid of his love.
So many people are against our relationship due to our age gap but the hell I care. In love, as they say, age doesn’t matter. They’re just numbers. Age shouldn’t be a hindrance for two lovers to fulfill their dream of fairytale-like romance. And that fairytale-like romance is in my hands, it will be stupid of me to blow off the chance. I worried-not of infatuations and puppy loves because I completely discern what I feel for Yasuyuki and that feeling I know for sure is true love as well as he to me.
All the waters in the world may dry up, and the sun may lose it’s glow but our love will forever live. No one can ever take us apart and that’s a promise I intend to keep until my last breath.Be the moon and the stars and the eclipse, the waters in the oceans, the trees and the birds, be the witness of our undying love for each other.I love him and I will forever spend the rest of my life loving Yasuyuki…
Clarissa's Love Story
I am really wanting to all my readers know that i ask permission to every love story in here. I will publish that they will not permit me so do not worry they just wanted to share how and when they met their husbands. Here you go our story today is about Clarissa. I hope you enjoy reading it....
He' s in love--- I thought that Yochan' s just playing around coz I didn' t hear anything from him about his plan for us in the future nor introducing me to his parents. He proposed to me a week before finishing my contract for 6 months as 4th timer that time and decided to meet his parents. I don' t really remember the first meeting--I was nervous!
After a long waiting of processing of papers, we became man and wife and then we went back again to meet his parents for the second time around and that time was different! It' s the only time I heard the truth that his Father is against me and Yochan didn't tell me anything about the arguement between him and his father even before he decided to get married to me. Gees!! That time I was nervous because of that long silence between both parties and that I was told by his Mother about the revelation.We are all kneeling at a coffee table ( japanese stlyle ) me and Yochan, and they're all facing in front of us. Yochan breaked the silence--- he said to his Father that he' s not asking for forgiveness for marrying a Filipina but he wants to introduce me that I am now his wife and whatever happens, it' s his own decision and his responsibility. Even if his father is against of our marriage, Yochan fighted for his love for me. After that, his father asked his wife to prepare a hotpot. While his Mother is preparing the hotpot, she was crying -- she told me that hotpot is served during winter time, she said that it means that I am now accepted because for them a HOTPOT is shared by FAMILY and that time it was summer and then we both cried in the kitchen.
" Bunso, wala kang mapapala sa bata, walang pera yan--gamitin mo naman ang utak mo! ". I knew I was right and I did the right thing when I decided to tie a knot to Yochan. " Why did you chose me among of your suitors? " My husband asked me one day." You might be living in a big mansion now and not in an apartment. " My husband is right-- we don' t have all the money in the world and that life can be hard and rough for us for sometimes. But it' s okay, I always have my family.( well, there are times I' m saying to myself that " kung may pera lang sana kami " ) LOL!^_^
" Bunso, kung magkakagusto ka rin lang sa hapon, mayaman na ang piliin mo. " That' s what our Ate in our working place told me when I was still working as an entertainer here in Japan.
I' m in love--- The club is our dating place that my co-workers and other guests started to noticed. I was a third timer then when I caught the managements attention---I don' t have a number of guests anymore. I was told of not letting Yochan get inside the club anymore coz he' s distracting my work and other guests are jealoused because of him ( pwede ba, di ko naman sila BF noh,sagot ko lang sa isip ko but I don' t have a choice coz I have to "work" out some pambobola to the guests to keep them coming at the club ) Since then, I learned to escape just to be with him for a date, of course with the help of Yochan's friend and my co-talent as our partners in crime. I know the risk of getting caught-- we have to pay for some penalties, we could go back to the Philippines without finishing our contract but it didn' t stopped me for not seeing him once in a while kahit na bawal. I' m a prisoner of love...But then lahat ng talents nagkabistuhan na including us, most especially US. My co-talents was pregnant by Yochan's friend and was talking about their marriage after our contract, but I remained as a talent and was extended for another 6 months after I promised that I won't break the rules again and became the groups leader as my 4th timer in Japan. It wasn' t easy coz there' s a lot of pressures now after the bistuhan but then another talent was asking me like," Ate, I would like to have a date with my BF, help me!! " hayzzz... Makakatanggi ka ba sa ganyan? I know it' s bad but that' s the truth...Hayan at tumubo na naman ang sunggay ko!!
I' m in love--- The club is our dating place that my co-workers and other guests started to noticed. I was a third timer then when I caught the managements attention---I don' t have a number of guests anymore. I was told of not letting Yochan get inside the club anymore coz he' s distracting my work and other guests are jealoused because of him ( pwede ba, di ko naman sila BF noh,sagot ko lang sa isip ko but I don' t have a choice coz I have to "work" out some pambobola to the guests to keep them coming at the club ) Since then, I learned to escape just to be with him for a date, of course with the help of Yochan's friend and my co-talent as our partners in crime. I know the risk of getting caught-- we have to pay for some penalties, we could go back to the Philippines without finishing our contract but it didn' t stopped me for not seeing him once in a while kahit na bawal. I' m a prisoner of love...But then lahat ng talents nagkabistuhan na including us, most especially US. My co-talents was pregnant by Yochan's friend and was talking about their marriage after our contract, but I remained as a talent and was extended for another 6 months after I promised that I won't break the rules again and became the groups leader as my 4th timer in Japan. It wasn' t easy coz there' s a lot of pressures now after the bistuhan but then another talent was asking me like," Ate, I would like to have a date with my BF, help me!! " hayzzz... Makakatanggi ka ba sa ganyan? I know it' s bad but that' s the truth...Hayan at tumubo na naman ang sunggay ko!!
He' s in love--- I thought that Yochan' s just playing around coz I didn' t hear anything from him about his plan for us in the future nor introducing me to his parents. He proposed to me a week before finishing my contract for 6 months as 4th timer that time and decided to meet his parents. I don' t really remember the first meeting--I was nervous!
After a long waiting of processing of papers, we became man and wife and then we went back again to meet his parents for the second time around and that time was different! It' s the only time I heard the truth that his Father is against me and Yochan didn't tell me anything about the arguement between him and his father even before he decided to get married to me. Gees!! That time I was nervous because of that long silence between both parties and that I was told by his Mother about the revelation.We are all kneeling at a coffee table ( japanese stlyle ) me and Yochan, and they're all facing in front of us. Yochan breaked the silence--- he said to his Father that he' s not asking for forgiveness for marrying a Filipina but he wants to introduce me that I am now his wife and whatever happens, it' s his own decision and his responsibility. Even if his father is against of our marriage, Yochan fighted for his love for me. After that, his father asked his wife to prepare a hotpot. While his Mother is preparing the hotpot, she was crying -- she told me that hotpot is served during winter time, she said that it means that I am now accepted because for them a HOTPOT is shared by FAMILY and that time it was summer and then we both cried in the kitchen.
" Bunso, wala kang mapapala sa bata, walang pera yan--gamitin mo naman ang utak mo! ". I knew I was right and I did the right thing when I decided to tie a knot to Yochan. " Why did you chose me among of your suitors? " My husband asked me one day." You might be living in a big mansion now and not in an apartment. " My husband is right-- we don' t have all the money in the world and that life can be hard and rough for us for sometimes. But it' s okay, I always have my family.( well, there are times I' m saying to myself that " kung may pera lang sana kami " ) LOL!^_^
Rossel's Love Story
I am really thankful that Rossel allow me to post her love story in here. Do not worry my dear i link you back where I copied your entry. My dear readers enjoy reading Rossel's love story. Here is her story....Those who have read my previous Couple’s Corner entry know that Hubby and I were office mates. He was accompanying me in going home everyday, the usual type of Filipino guy. I was “bantay sarado” (well-guarded) but I loved it. There were times in the office that he stood in his post with papers on his hands with “I LOVE YOU” written on it. Because it was very big and bold, I was not the only one reading it but the whole office. I was blushing every time he’s doing that but I am loving him more.
That time, they had no phone line at home so he used to call me from a public phone booth in Dangwa bus station along Aurora Boulevard. He was calling me every night with pocket full of coins. We’re talking for 30mins, with phone booth’s door closed so he was sweating to death. And because I have other suitors who were calling me, I instructed my mom to tell them that I am not home except for Rhonnel of course. His voice was the only voice I wanted to hear and he was the only one I wanted to talk to.
Rhonnel and I were steady for 2 months when I received a call from my ex-boyfriend. He was in Saipan. He wanted to go back with me. I was stunned because I was not expecting to receive a call from him anymore. I was waiting for him for 2 years, no letters, no calls, no anything. I told him that I already have a boyfriend. But then he said he still has chances because we’re not married yet. He gave me his number and told me to call him the following day, 8 in the evening. He said that if I call him, it means that he has a chance and that he’s going to court me again. But if I won’t call, he won’t bother me anymore. Nawindang ang araw ko, grabe! May be that time I still had feelings for him but I love Rhonnel too. I wasn’t able to sleep that night. I was praying the whole night. “Lord, help me please. Whatever my decision will be, it is your will.” I made up my mind and didn’t call. As promised he didn’t bother me since then.
I had no regrets. Rhonnel is very romantic and full of surprises. There was not a time that I felt neglected. With him, I feel that I am loved. He was not like other guys who make the decision always. He respects me and my feelings, and valued my thoughts. He is asking for my opinion whenever he has to decide on something. With him, I feel my worth.
That time, they had no phone line at home so he used to call me from a public phone booth in Dangwa bus station along Aurora Boulevard. He was calling me every night with pocket full of coins. We’re talking for 30mins, with phone booth’s door closed so he was sweating to death. And because I have other suitors who were calling me, I instructed my mom to tell them that I am not home except for Rhonnel of course. His voice was the only voice I wanted to hear and he was the only one I wanted to talk to.
Rhonnel and I were steady for 2 months when I received a call from my ex-boyfriend. He was in Saipan. He wanted to go back with me. I was stunned because I was not expecting to receive a call from him anymore. I was waiting for him for 2 years, no letters, no calls, no anything. I told him that I already have a boyfriend. But then he said he still has chances because we’re not married yet. He gave me his number and told me to call him the following day, 8 in the evening. He said that if I call him, it means that he has a chance and that he’s going to court me again. But if I won’t call, he won’t bother me anymore. Nawindang ang araw ko, grabe! May be that time I still had feelings for him but I love Rhonnel too. I wasn’t able to sleep that night. I was praying the whole night. “Lord, help me please. Whatever my decision will be, it is your will.” I made up my mind and didn’t call. As promised he didn’t bother me since then.
I had no regrets. Rhonnel is very romantic and full of surprises. There was not a time that I felt neglected. With him, I feel that I am loved. He was not like other guys who make the decision always. He respects me and my feelings, and valued my thoughts. He is asking for my opinion whenever he has to decide on something. With him, I feel my worth.
We're InLove - by Chuchie II
Hubby (Gary) and I had a break-up when we personally met the first time due to conflicts in the relationship. I mean, we met on Sept. 02, 06 and had a break up on Sept. 10, 06. It was my entire fault and I took the blame for what happened. He did a great job in giving the fault back to me for I was really hurt with what he did ten times than the pain I’ve caused him but I couldn’t blame him for doing so. The greatest fault I did I guess was when I didn’t or actually when I forgot to tell hubby about my very first online boyfriend that I haven't met yet who, at the time I considered ex because we didn't have communication for almost a year. My ex and I have been chatting for two years before I met Gary so i considered the "ex" as "ex". But mother of all bad luck, the ex called saying he wanted to meet me while I was in Boracay with Gary after almost a year of not hearing from him. I just couldn't believe how I/we was/were tested above because after my ex called, Gary's ex also called him. For me it was not a big deal but I didn’t think it was a big deal to Gary for not telling him about my ex but oh well, it was! That’s when conflicts and my pains started. He started corresponding to the calls and text messages of his 32 year-old ex-gf from Cebu behind my back having a purpose of hurting me I guess. Well, he succeed. One day, I read a text massage from the ex-gf saying she will be in Boracay the next day. I was like “wow” what a big slap on my face. I felt so stupid for being fooled. I was darn innocent at 19 and I felt I was played.
We both were aware how much we loved each other even by talking online and on the phone. We even loved each other more when we personally met but I guess the foundation of our love was not strong enough that’s why it was easily torn down. Since I was a little immature, I didn’t able to handle the conflicts with my husband. I left Boracay and him and flew back to Manila to avoid more conflicts of meeting his ex-gf. God, there were lots of sleepless nights after that. I started having remorsement for not fighting for us. There were lots of tears and pains to endure. I cried everytime I get the chance when family’s not around. I thought it was the end of the world thinking I couldn’t see him no more but I was wrong because he asked me to take him to the airport. Of course, he have to, he left his plane ticket to me. Plain stupid, isn’t he? I was excited seeing him again but I know there was no way for us to be back together and I had no plan to accept him back either. I do have my pride. I was surprised though why he held my hand tight the whole trip to the airport and kissed me before he got out of the taxi. It was weird but I liked it.
Life went on. After 3 months of having no communication with him I was able to put myself back together. Life was back to normal not until I received an instant message from him on yahoo saying “I feel that you are pregnant with my baby.” It was too late. I had an abortion a week before I read the message. That’s how we started contacting each other again. He requested me to go back to my hometown (Manukan, somewhere in Mindanao). I granted him that. When he arrived for the first time in Mindanao to meet my parents, we stopped first at our hotel room and there he was, down on his knees, teary eyes uttering words of forgiveness, of how much he cried when he realized his lost, of how much he prayed God to give me back to him. He asked for my love again and I granted him that too. I blamed it to my heart for I do love him dearly. He just failed to realize how much that love was when we first met. We then started all over gain, but the love for each other still remained because we've been in loved and will always be.
The Day/Night We Met - by Chuchie
This is how we met.....
Hubby's thoughts about our first meeting…
(Hubby wrote this while I was taking a nap this afternoon.)
Wow, the day I finally met Chie, I was really excited
knowing I was going to finally met her after several months of t
alking on messenger as well as talking on the phone with her. The day I landed in Manila I was really nervous, for she was to meet me at the airport there. LOL! Well she wasn't their waiting for me as planned (she thought I wasn't really coming). So I called her and told her I was here and I could tell she was freaking because I really did come after all. So I waited for her at the hotel she helped me pick out. It was really a nice room, almost like a studio apartment, kitchen and all.
So I spent the next several hours waiting for her in the room, which made it worse just waiting. Heck, after all she was supposed to have been waiting on me, lol. So when she called me and said she was near I waited for her outside the hotel, I was really nervous now, like palm sweaty nervous at that. I already knew she was beautiful and had a nice body from the pictures we shared. However seeing someone in person for the first time with the natural beauty as hers made it more nerve racking for me. I mean she was what a guy dreams of, but with a heart of gold and the will to learn.
Now she had also warned me before that she was small, but most Filipino’s are so it wasn't going to bother me. When she got out of the cab I was like WOW, not only was she small but dam sexy and well proportioned and very beautiful. I mean nice round butt and over average boobs for her height. However the thing I remember the most was her eyes and the way it intensified her beauty. She was being so shy and nervous, but yet still looking at me. As I took her in my arms and hugged and kissed her, it was from that day with our eyes still clued to each other I knew she was going to be my wife.
After almost four months of talking online and over the phone, I finally met my husband on September 2, 2006 around 9:00 p.m. something. I never really expected he was coming. I mean, it’s not too easy for me to believe on something unless it is really happening. So, when he called me saying he was at the airport in Manila on September 02, 06 at 5:00 p.m., I was like “is he joking or something”? The phone he was using to call was Philippines number so I thought hewas really there. He told me that he was waiting for hours already hoping to see me picking him up at the airport. It was also convenient because I was in Manila staying at one of my aunts.
Since I was shock knowing it was true, I told him to just go ahead and wait for me at the hotel room we picked online. Yeah, he asked me to help him out with picking a nice hotel to stay and basing on the pictures he showed me online I chose a little cozy and of course comfy hotel. So there he went to the hotel and waited for me until 9:00. Yes, I showed up at 9 something in the evening because Iwas really hesitant to come and see him. I was nervous and shy and excited at the same time for our first meeting. I was wondering how will I talk to him, how will I move and act in from of him. There were lots of questions in my head like “is he approachable?”, “is he a good person?”, “is he picky?”, “will I be safe?”, and “will he ever like me” or "will he run upon seeing me"? So, I finally made up my mind and decided to meet him although I knew it was not ok for my aunts especially my grandma to go out the house at night.
When I arrived, I recognized him sitting at the steps outside the hotel and Wow, he was young and very manly with broad shoulders, very muscular, army cut and so handsome and well-groomed. I’ve seen his photos on the internet but seeing him personallywas really breath taking. I never expected seeing as handsome as him and with a smile on his lips, who could not fall in love with this man? I was darn nervous and sweaty. I could feel my sweats dripping down from my armpit, no kidding. After that, we went up to the hotel room and started introducing ourselves over our foods and few bottles of San Miguel beer. I got all my questions answered, he easily got me at eased with him. He is a good man, I sensed it the way he uses his words. He is a respectable person, a husband material. I sensed he was nervous too and shaking and I also knew that he was trying not to be by opening a conversation to talk about. Itwas really nice sharing stories with him. Next to that, we started kissing and hugging each other. So yes, I slept at his hotel that night and the next morning we went together to see my aunts. Woot!Hubby's thoughts about our first meeting…
(Hubby wrote this while I was taking a nap this afternoon.)
knowing I was going to finally met her after several months of t
alking on messenger as well as talking on the phone with her. The day I landed in Manila I was really nervous, for she was to meet me at the airport there. LOL! Well she wasn't their waiting for me as planned (she thought I wasn't really coming). So I called her and told her I was here and I could tell she was freaking because I really did come after all. So I waited for her at the hotel she helped me pick out. It was really a nice room, almost like a studio apartment, kitchen and all.So I spent the next several hours waiting for her in the room, which made it worse just waiting. Heck, after all she was supposed to have been waiting on me, lol. So when she called me and said she was near I waited for her outside the hotel, I was really nervous now, like palm sweaty nervous at that. I already knew she was beautiful and had a nice body from the pictures we shared. However seeing someone in person for the first time with the natural beauty as hers made it more nerve racking for me. I mean she was what a guy dreams of, but with a heart of gold and the will to learn.
Now she had also warned me before that she was small, but most Filipino’s are so it wasn't going to bother me. When she got out of the cab I was like WOW, not only was she small but dam sexy and well proportioned and very beautiful. I mean nice round butt and over average boobs for her height. However the thing I remember the most was her eyes and the way it intensified her beauty. She was being so shy and nervous, but yet still looking at me. As I took her in my arms and hugged and kissed her, it was from that day with our eyes still clued to each other I knew she was going to be my wife.
Love Story: A Dream Come True
Are you dreaming to say "I DO" on the open wide and sandy beaches????I DO. and my dreams came true on the 8th of July 2008 in the Philippines, well of course with my groom to be from America.I was dreaming that on my wedding day everyone must have fun and so while I was teaching in Thailand, I also spent time preparing the wedding program making it sure everyone will be involved.I chose the songs that I wanted to be played on the special day, the cake design and other stuff.Some of my friends gave some suggestions but I ignored them and pretending to them that I'm just playing around. I didn't tell them whats the exact plan not until my scheduled flight was approaching and I've bought plane ticket because I was scared that my honey won't show up(because this had happened to others before)..it would be disappointed and embarrassed.So my decision of quitting my job and going home was somewhat like secret to those who don't know.hahahaha.On the day that I flew from Thailand to the Philippines my groom also flew from America to the Philippines. while I was at Bangkok International Airport my groom kept calling me making it sure that i wont be left behind by the plane. hahaha This is because i have been know to be late and miss buses and appointments before. In fact I missed the plane to manila from my hometown to come to America.hahaha somehow he knew me real well. Back to my story, I arrived in Manila early morning on the 6th of July 2009 and stayed at one of the guest house, that my groom had arrange for me to stay in there while waiting for my groom to arrive.Our agreement was when he will arrive in manila he will make a call so that I will know that he already landed safely but while waiting for his call on the 6th of July at 11:30 in the evening,I received no call from him.I was scared again, what if he wont really come?And so many weird thought came to my mind.But while I was in my room waiting for his call I heard somebody knocking at my door...The cab driver from the guest house called my attention and told me that my groom called him and safely landed..I don't understand what I felt after hearing those confirmation then I got up and went with him at the airport to meet my groom.When we were at the airport,we didn't see my groom on the passengers side,so we looked on the other side of the building and there we saw the big bald America groom, he stood out in the crowd just a little bit hahaha, waving his hand to us and with the big grin on his face standing in the middle of the crowd. He then ran thru the line of cars waiting in line to get to me, i guess he couldn't wait, neither could I.The next morning we headed to my hometown on the 7th of July at 3 in the morning.We were both happy than we finally met and together though it would be for a short time for the moment while waiting for the paper works.The whole day of 7th of July, we bounced from here to there picking up the wedding gowns,wedding cake and other needed stuff for the wedding on the following day.It was so tiring. It was a rushed wedding but it turns good.Everybody did their part and had fun.After the ceremony my brides maid tried to take me away from my groom and also the grooms men tried to take the groom away from the bride.hahahaha just look at the photo above.
12 Ways to Let Go of Past Loves
There are times that we ourselves cannot let go the past but we need to move on our lives and it is better for you. Here the ways to let go of the past loves.1. Get Real About What Was
We can get relief from our nostalgia for a passionate love by remembering the intensity of the memory does not hold some great truth about the relationship’s sacredness. Remember, what fueled the attraction may not have been love, but your soul’s desire to heal the past.
2. Purge the Merge-Urge
3. Are You Romanticizing?
Brain scientists now recognize that nearly 20 percent of us suffer from “complicated grief.” According Rob Stein of the Washington Post, “One of the hallmarks of complicated grief is a persistent sense of longing for the lost one and a tendency to conjure up reveries of that person.”
4. There’s No Such Thing As One and Only
5. This Is Me, Free!
Visualize yourself as free without requiring that you know how that will be accomplished. Just imagine you have already arrived at a place in the future where you are. Imagine yourself saying to a friend, “Oh my gosh, I haven’t thought about x in years!” Absorb how fantastic you’ll feel, how happy and energized, and say thank you for that.
6. Your Brain Speaks Body Language
Your brain believes your body, sort of a reverse of the placebo affect. You begin to feel free of the past when you act free of the past!
7. Turn to Creativity
One of the best balms for emotional wounds is creativity, which is different from staying busy. Doing something creative, whether it is writing, drawing, composing lyrics, changing your hairstyle, planting a garden, thinking of a great gift, or redecorating a room, connects you to yourself and a power greater than yourself. Doing something kind for someone else is also a good idea but let’s face it, you can brood the entire time you are doing a good deed. Creativity is deeply engaging. It fills you from the inside out.
8. Read it Right
9. Exercise to Exorcise
Go to the gym regularly, or go for a run. Regular exercise keeps your endorphin levels high and keeps you from falling into melancholy memories. (This is a place where you can use music, upbeat and invigorating.)
10. Shut the Door on the Uninvited Guest
Practice separating your “self” from your “thoughts.” It does not matter whether or not your thought is “true.” It only matters whether the thought interferes with your happiness.
11. Disarm with Charm
12. Swap Melodrama for Goofy — Literally
13. Find Freedom Today
Joy's Love Story
Hello everyone. Today our story is about Joy of Couple's Love Book in which she give me permission to post her love story in here. Thank you Joy for allowing me to share your love story to my dear readers. Enjoy reading everybody. Here is her story.
"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness."
In year 2004, my ex-boyfriend saw my profile in one of the dating website, from there, he already fell at first sight with my photo as well as the section where I was looking for marriage and lifetime companion because that’s what he was looking for too. So, by then, he tried to email me twice, but I never received anything from him until he decided to send me a snail mail. From the moment we saw each other’s photos, we already knew that we like each other. Until we get into deeper relationship where we found out more about each other where our liking towards each other develops into love. I was kind a skeptical too since we never met in person yet and then we already saying, “I Love You’s” after we talked over the phone or when we wrote emails to each other which is sometimes made me to think about reasons of what if’s.
So, when we had a chance to finally meet each other in person that’s where I confirmed of how we really love each other and yes, WE’RE IN LOVE, and we show it to the world that we indeed in love by getting married and settle down after 5 months of getting to know each other. We are sort of in a rush at that time which seem like he make sure that I won't change my mind.
One more thing, every day, he always say he loves me, he even whispered the three words in my ear when he goes to work, early in the morning where sometimes, I pretend I was asleep. It is so sweet of him doing that every day. He only missed a few, if we had a misunderstanding and when I was fully awake and not asleep. He whispered once in my sleep that woke me up though and at that time we had an argument. It was touching that’s why if he made something that disappoints me, I always forgive him in the end.
What more could I say, I am in love and will always be…
"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness."
In year 2004, my ex-boyfriend saw my profile in one of the dating website, from there, he already fell at first sight with my photo as well as the section where I was looking for marriage and lifetime companion because that’s what he was looking for too. So, by then, he tried to email me twice, but I never received anything from him until he decided to send me a snail mail. From the moment we saw each other’s photos, we already knew that we like each other. Until we get into deeper relationship where we found out more about each other where our liking towards each other develops into love. I was kind a skeptical too since we never met in person yet and then we already saying, “I Love You’s” after we talked over the phone or when we wrote emails to each other which is sometimes made me to think about reasons of what if’s.
So, when we had a chance to finally meet each other in person that’s where I confirmed of how we really love each other and yes, WE’RE IN LOVE, and we show it to the world that we indeed in love by getting married and settle down after 5 months of getting to know each other. We are sort of in a rush at that time which seem like he make sure that I won't change my mind.
One more thing, every day, he always say he loves me, he even whispered the three words in my ear when he goes to work, early in the morning where sometimes, I pretend I was asleep. It is so sweet of him doing that every day. He only missed a few, if we had a misunderstanding and when I was fully awake and not asleep. He whispered once in my sleep that woke me up though and at that time we had an argument. It was touching that’s why if he made something that disappoints me, I always forgive him in the end.
What more could I say, I am in love and will always be…
Chris Love Story
Chris allow me to post her love story in here. Thank you Chris for this and I hope you enjoy reading others love story also. Dear readers enjoy also reading Chris love story and come back anytime to read more love stories. See you. Here is her story.....
After officially becoming a couple on March 2000, we already had our wedding/marriage in mind. We were serious and both coming from long relationships before, we were sure that we were meant to be husband and wife. It was not an easy road for us. My parents opposed our relationship and our plans to get married. I come from a pure Chinese family and they prefer that I get married to a fellow Chinese. My hubby is Filipino and though they dont know him yet, he was already pre-judged.
It was quite difficult as days go by. We were set to get married, knowing that it was God who led us together and in my heart, I KNEW that God had called me to become his wife. There was tension in my family and as the months passed by, the date we had set to get married was drawing nearer. It was 2 months before the date when my parents finally agreed to face him and had formal talks with him. The dinner went well and all they asked was to move the wedding for a few more months so we can prepare and since this was the first wedding in my family, they wanted to be involved. We agreed....So to cut the long story short, we had a short engagement. We loved each other and our story is not the usual mushy stuff... We got married 11 months after we became a couple with the blessing of my parents and God's provision.
After officially becoming a couple on March 2000, we already had our wedding/marriage in mind. We were serious and both coming from long relationships before, we were sure that we were meant to be husband and wife. It was not an easy road for us. My parents opposed our relationship and our plans to get married. I come from a pure Chinese family and they prefer that I get married to a fellow Chinese. My hubby is Filipino and though they dont know him yet, he was already pre-judged.
It was quite difficult as days go by. We were set to get married, knowing that it was God who led us together and in my heart, I KNEW that God had called me to become his wife. There was tension in my family and as the months passed by, the date we had set to get married was drawing nearer. It was 2 months before the date when my parents finally agreed to face him and had formal talks with him. The dinner went well and all they asked was to move the wedding for a few more months so we can prepare and since this was the first wedding in my family, they wanted to be involved. We agreed....So to cut the long story short, we had a short engagement. We loved each other and our story is not the usual mushy stuff... We got married 11 months after we became a couple with the blessing of my parents and God's provision.
God's Love and Ours
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son[a] into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for[b] our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.
4 Dating Rules That Stand The Test of Time
The logistics of dating may have changed and evolved over the years, but regardless of your generation, we believe that some dating rules still stand the test of time. So let us be your date doctor when it comes to entering and surviving the dating scene.
Here are the 4 dating rules:
1. Keep your Standards High but Stay Realistic
Does this sound like a contradiction? It doesn’t have to. The dating scene can be difficult and can become disillusioning after you’re in it for awhile, but you should never settle for anything just because you’re tired of being single. Everyone should have basic standards they stick to, and those standards should never be compromised. Not every date has to end up with a love match.
2. Give Them a Chase
This rule applies to both sexes, even though men most often tend to take the role of the chaser. When you first start dating someone, you don’t have to spend every waking hour with them. Take some time apart. Not always being available builds mystery and anticipation, and keeps them wanting more. When they call for a date, tell them you already have plans. If they really want to pursue you, they’ll keep trying. And don’t wait around for their phone call. Being active and busy is attractive, so keep your social calendar filled, and “secretly” keep a day open for them.
3. Give Them a Chance
You never know when you’ll meet the woman or man of your dreams, and most of the time the circumstances won’t be what you’ve always pictured. It also might not be love at first sight, so keep an open mind! When it comes to being set up on a blind date, go for it! The only reason you should ever politely refuse being set up is if the same person keeps setting you up with people who are just not your type.
4. While on a Date
There’s no doubt about it – first dates can be very nerve-wracking, even for the most experienced dater or most confident of people. Often times, nerves get in the way of being yourself, which then gets in the way of the other person really getting to know you for you. Nerves can also compromise your ability to think clearly when it comes to etiquette in general.
Here are the 4 dating rules:
1. Keep your Standards High but Stay Realistic
Does this sound like a contradiction? It doesn’t have to. The dating scene can be difficult and can become disillusioning after you’re in it for awhile, but you should never settle for anything just because you’re tired of being single. Everyone should have basic standards they stick to, and those standards should never be compromised. Not every date has to end up with a love match.
2. Give Them a Chase
This rule applies to both sexes, even though men most often tend to take the role of the chaser. When you first start dating someone, you don’t have to spend every waking hour with them. Take some time apart. Not always being available builds mystery and anticipation, and keeps them wanting more. When they call for a date, tell them you already have plans. If they really want to pursue you, they’ll keep trying. And don’t wait around for their phone call. Being active and busy is attractive, so keep your social calendar filled, and “secretly” keep a day open for them.
3. Give Them a Chance
You never know when you’ll meet the woman or man of your dreams, and most of the time the circumstances won’t be what you’ve always pictured. It also might not be love at first sight, so keep an open mind! When it comes to being set up on a blind date, go for it! The only reason you should ever politely refuse being set up is if the same person keeps setting you up with people who are just not your type.
4. While on a Date
There’s no doubt about it – first dates can be very nerve-wracking, even for the most experienced dater or most confident of people. Often times, nerves get in the way of being yourself, which then gets in the way of the other person really getting to know you for you. Nerves can also compromise your ability to think clearly when it comes to etiquette in general.
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